Wednesday, March 16, 2011

Are we living in the 'last days' ?

In a recent conversation with my cousin on FB, she asked me a question - Is it possible that we are living in the 'end times'.  In response, I gave her a thesis that would go towards a master's degree. Ok, it really wasn't that long, just seemed like it! 

As I read books- both current and about history - and listen to opinions about what's happening, I see many people have a sense that societies around the globe - not just America - can't continue the current path without consequences. Also, there is a sense of 'something big' happening in the near future. This 'sense' has always been in the mind of people thru history- ie, reference the bible and other historical documents.
By reading the Bible and and taking into consideration what leaders are saying who have experience in the economy, our culture and politics, I understand we are living in a time of turmoil.  Yet people are hungry for truth and honesty- they are tired of greed, debt, etc.
The fact that the earth cannot - on a continual basis - physically withstand the harmful habits of people is referenced in the Bible as well as verified in research by scientists.  I'm talking about the Scriptures in the biblical book of Romans that relate how the earth itself gets 'sick' of the lawlessness of humanity and is waiting to be renewed.
Whether we believe the Bible or not, there is increasing evidence that nations are desperate for peace, societies are messed up and they are looking for someone with answers to their problems. Of course, this has always been the case, but I'm convinced God knew what a mess we'd be in and that evil would increase ( I guess so with approx 7 billion on the planet now !! ).
No He didn't purposefully create catastrophes or cause evil situations to happen just so He could 'save the world'; I'm more and more convinced that He knows the heart of people and what we can do when we are given opportunity, either good or evil. The sad fact is, man's heart is inclined to do wrong instead of right; look at our kid's....they don't have to be taught to do wrong (it comes naturally), they have to be taught to do things correctly!

So, knowing what man is capable of and how we can mess ourselves up so bad, Jesus told his followers details regarding the end of the present age. Pretty cool, since He could 'see' the future... Those 'times' are what many - including me - believe are happening now; but if they are not the specific times, most bible scholars agree that all predictions about events happening before Jesus' promised return have been fulfilled. So the next 'great event' according to the bible is Jesus' return to take Christians to Heaven before a 'great tribulation' happens.
One thing I know -- in one manner, we have to live our life as if we face God the next moment, yet at the same time we live to fulfill our purpose for being put on the planet. We can't just 'set around' waiting for the earth to explode!! People have to know about the One who gives real Peace- Jesus.

Wednesday, March 9, 2011

10 Commandments of Confrontation

In John Maxwell's book, Developing the Leader Within You, he gives 10 principles to help when we have to confront a person about his/her actions, attitude, etc.  For those of us who run from confrontation, as most people do, he suggests thinking in terms of clarity, instead of confronting; ie, clarify the issue instead of confronting the person.
1.  Do it privately, not publicly.
2.  Do it as soon as possible; that is more natural than waiting a long time.
3.  Speak to one issue at a time.  Don't overload a person with a long list of issues.
4.  Once you've made a point, don't keep repeating it.
5.  Deal only with actions the person can change.  If you ask the person to do something he/she is unable to
     do, frustration builds in your relationship.
6.  Avoid sarcasm. Sarcasm signals that you are angry at people, not at their actions, and may cause them to
     resent you. 
7.  Avoid words like always and never.  They usually detract from accuracy and make people defensive.
8.  Present criticisms as suggestions or questions, if possible.
9.  Don't apologize for the confrontational meeting.  Doing so detracts from it and may indicate you are not
     sure you had the right to say what you did. 
10.  Don't forget the compliments. Use 'the sandwich' approach in these type of conversations...compliment -
      confront - compliment.